Why younger women date older men...

This subject has recently come up, a friend of mine comments that younger women seem to be dating older and older men. His rant was that 20 something *hot* women where dating men in my age range (40-ish). My friends comments were that younger women going out with older men were looking for 'Sugar Daddies' or they are 'Gold Diggers'.

I told him that it was a simple. Young women understand that older men have it going on. After much laughing on his side, he asked the question "What is it that they *have* that is so damned attractive?"

I listed out 10 items that made older men more sought out by younger women.

1) No more McDonalds, Taco Bell, Wendy's, Burger King or other fast food restaurants. Say *HELLO* to Five Star Restaurants instead.

2) Tired of having your car break down all the time? Well - park that second hand klunker she's been driving and pickup the keys to his Porche, Ferrari, Lexus, BMW 5 series, Mercedes or whatever car that caught his attention. Older men usually have better toys too than the poor starving muscian boyfriend who had to take the bus to each gig.

3) You like vacations? No - not talking about Las Vegas, Idaho or Montana in the winter. Lets talk about cruises to the Bahama's or trips to Rome, Italy or Spain. Younger guys just can't spend on those kinds of things - too expensive for them.

4) You like clothes? Shopping? Shoes? Older and more established men understand a woman's need for shopping and they *indulge* those cravings rather than whine about it like younger men. Say *hello* to American Express Black card baby!

5) Older men are usually more experienced lovers in bed. Been there, done that and can do it pretty damned good too. In my case, I'm also jaded as hell and can really ring a woman's bell no matter what her kink is. Younger men... well lets just say those pups need at least another decade to learn the ropes.

6) We don't want to change the woman. Honestly, we don't. Older men have figured out that either a woman does or doesn't, and if they don't, we won't. It's that simple... so why try to change her??

7) Older men are more patient in a relationship because they have matured and learned from all the mistakes from when they were younger. They are wiser and care more about the little things in life. Women spend a great deal trying to *train* younger men, and it just frustrates them, so when they meet an older man - its a no brainer to hook up with them.

8) Older men are established in their careers. They are not trying to figure out where they want to go in life, because they have already figured this out. This removes a lot of problems in the relationship for the woman. If she enjoys him, and can deal with his chosen vocation, that it's all good. Plus, if he makes more bucks that her, she can stop working and be a stay-at-home mommy or do something she would rather enjoy.

9) Men who are mature also tend to be worldlier and more self-confident as they know themselves better, which is something that attracts younger women.

10) Now, in some ways, younger women in particular those who have an absent father, look to an older man as a type of father figure or mentor. This is often a mutually beneficial arrangement for both parties involved. A woman will receive guidance and gain more life experience from being with an older man while the older man gets to feel that he is powerful and is looked up to by the woman. I'm not saying this is a *bad* thing, but in a relationship like this, it could be beneficial to the both of them.

Till next post...